I am lucky.  I met my husband a little before I turned nineteen (and I am in my thirties now).  I didn’t have to go through any of the struggles most people do when they are looking for their knight in shining armour or their damsel in distress.  I do have single friends who tell me how horrible the bar scene is and how hard it is for them to find to find someone.

I am so glad there are sites out there like True.com that allow you to search for free through their listings. What is better than sitting on your bed from home looking for someone verses spending an arm and a leg in a bar and finding no one.  Best of all, it is free to look.  You can see who they have in their databases, and it won’t cost you one penny.  In this economic time, how great is that! They have millions of members to choose from and their have scientific compatibility testing too!  This isn’t going to be like trying to find a needle in a haystack.  They even do criminal screenings for felonies.  You don’t have to worry that you are looking a profile of someone killed a bunch of people and now is on parole.  They even report people who are married and lie about it!

Signup is free.  If you are single and looking, what are you waiting for?

Let me warn you, make you sure have a box of tissues handy when you check out the blog Because Someone Cares.  This blog is about (to quote her site) “Every time I hear of a suffering child, my heart breaks. I must do something to help in any way I can. For now I’ll write about some of these children, and hopefully you’ll read and do whatever you can to help.”  She also has other posts, but there are a lot of really good posts about children who need your help.  As a mother with two little ones myself, it reminds me of how lucky my kids and I really are and breaks my heart at the same time.  She even has the foundations that she talks about in her sidebar for easy reference.  If you want to make a difference in this world, check out her blog and the foundations she talks about and consider donating yourself.